Who Am I

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we’re complicated humans
i am all these things

Wonderful prompt, Reena! Thanks for always hosting interesting ones for us! I did dig deeper and Googled the word as I’d never heard of it. Fascinating info…

AI Overview

An otrovert is a newly defined personality type, coined by psychiatrist Rami Kaminski, for individuals who are well-adjusted and friendly but consistently feel like outsiders, resisting absorption into groups or collectives. Unlike introverts who turn inward, or extroverts who turn outward, otroverts “turn elsewhere,” prioritizing independence and clarity while maintaining empathy and connection on a deep, individual level rather than in large groups. They are comfortable with their non-belonging, preferring one-on-one interactions over group settings and often finding their unique perspective a source of strength. 

Key Characteristics of an Otrovert:

  • Resists Group Identity: Otroverts question abstract group ideas and don’t feel a deep connection to ideologies, religions, or other large-scale affiliations. 
  • Prefers Individual Connections: They enjoy deep, one-on-one friendships and prefer individual activities over group ones. 
  • Observational and Independent: They are often observers who remain grounded in their own values, rather than conforming to group norms. 
  • Friendly but Not Merged: While empathetic and capable of engaging with groups, they never fully dissolve into the collective, maintaining their emotional autonomy. 
  • A “Foul Weather Friend”: They are reliable and deep friends who help others without expectation of reciprocity. 

How Otroverts Differ from Other Types:

  • vs. Introvert: Introverts are energized by solitude, but otroverts are not necessarily alone; they simply don’t thrive in group settings. 
  • vs. Extrovert: Extroverts gain energy from being around people, while otroverts are comfortable standing apart from the crowd. 
  • vs. Ambivert/Omnivert: These terms describe a person’s ability to balance introverted and extroverted tendencies. Theotrovert focuses on the deliberate nature of non-belonging and the preference for individual connection. 

“Otrovert” and the Concept of Otherness:

The term “otrovert” is derived from the Spanish word “otro” (other). The concept emphasizes the strength in being an outsider and highlights that feeling like an outsider is not a flaw but a distinct personality trait that can lead to unique creativity and insights. 

Juneteenth 2020

a celebration to end slavery
and yet
the shackles remained
white hearts in fear
with attitudes of evil

jim crow laws
lynchings
no coloreds allowed, whites only
separate but equal
mass incarceration
systemic racism
police brutality

four hundred years as kept
one hundred fifty years lied to
is 2020 the year a promise realized
freedom a reality for the minority
so cruelly enslaved in various ways
will prejudices finally be put aside

will we finally be humane?

Vow

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On this day, pursue the will to have…
openness
compassion
empathy

against…
dishonesty
insincerity
apathy

Make every effort to counter…
violence
hatred
bigotry

with…
peace
love
acceptance

Our world would thank you for it.

Being

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nullity, darkness

entering my existence

more doors in my path

Cold

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You inflicted your pain on me.

Lessons

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Hasan Almasi – Unsplash

Life doing its unintentional thing can hurt. 
I weep, pull myself up and move on.

People’s forced recklessness do harm.
I weep inconsolably,
going deeper into my shell.
Feelings amplified in this echo chamber.
Can’t hear the external anymore.
I hide for a while,

working everything out inside.
And I emerge.

Lessons
I’ve had more than a few.

Embracing

Life is an ever-changing plan of existence.

Let’s sing a song of acceptance, being perfect already.

The layers of uniqueness, whatever the condition,

accept them, revel in them, love them, and Just Be you.

It’s not perfect, but it’s mine.

                                                                                          Tim Minchin

Motion

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Darklight 53 – Deviant Art

Going towards
Health, well-being, and stability

Limbs are in motion to remain in the game.
Emotions challenge us to rise above the harm.
Intellect seeks progress to keep moving forward.

Falling backward
Illness, misery, and chaos

Physical wavering, awaiting our fate.
Succumbing to feelings, oppressed into inaction.
Intelligence unable to keep up, a free-for-all ensuing.

Which direction are you going?

Humanoid

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Did you know that humans are genetically 99.9% identical? Well, it’s true! 7.6 billion people inhabit this world. Being one individual in this pool of many seems like we wouldn’t be that special. A human is pretty much just a human. Right?

Wrong! Look at the many layers of uniqueness that make up a human. We are defined by the various presentations or absence of such as…

hair color
political views
eyes
disposition
age
origin of birth
occupation
skin color
health
location
biological sex
gender identity
expressiveness
education
sexual preference
status
personality
style
religious belief

There are even more details to describe who we are as individuals. This short list only mentions the distinct feature we can see or might openly share with one another. Further identifying each characteristic makes each of us even more incredibly dissimilar.

Then add to that a lifetime of experiences which uniquely influence and potentially change our views and perspectives. It is unfathomable how many different human beings there have been, are currently and will be. Not one like any other, ever.

Don’t these facts alone make us supremely rare and our existence unprecedented?

I think so.

And for that, we should all walk a little taller and prouder.

Don’t you?